A Trip Down Memory Lane
Prior to our four years of travel we downsized and parted with many of the larger items in our house. There was enough trauma associated with that exercise that most of the smaller treasures associated with our lives to that point were packed and put in storage. In 2014 we emptied our eastern storage locker and again parted with many items. The problem is we still have too much stuff! The other day I made the mistake of choosing another box from our ‘western’ locker to sort!
Those of you fighting the ‘downsizing exercise’ will know what I face. During our lives we have moved from a fourteen room farmhouse, to a two-story finished basement house, to a 1600 sq. foot bungalow with finished walk out basement, to a 42 foot motorhome to a 1200 sq. foot condo with a 5’x10′ locker! Until this last move, lots of space! Some boxes that I have sorted had not seen the light of day since the move from the farmhouse but the last box was one that was full of memories.
We were married in 1967, our centennial project! As a daughter in a large extended family, the members all actively involved in many aspects of the community. the wedding guest list was a challenge. My parents hosted a large traditional wedding and several aunts hosted showers. There were a lot of gifts! In fact I just opened a package that contained a cotton bedsheet that, after washing, has been used for the backing of a quilt almost fifty-one years later! But that’s not my current problem. I was married during the era when ‘silver’ was a treasured gift!
I loved to entertain and throughout my life have often hosted large gatherings of family and friends. The wedding gifts of china and ‘silverware’ were frequently used and enjoyed. Through the years there were occasional purchases also, as I have a love of ‘old’ dishes, pressed glass and, yes, the occasional item of silver. As a result, at this point in my life, there are a lot of decisions to make.
Here are some of the items causing me angst:
I spent many hours with silver polish yesterday as I reminisced about occasions when I used some some of these gifts.
Don’s Award Silver
A few items in the collection are memory items. These were from 1968 when Don was a member of the Lanark County Judging team at the Royal Agricultural Winter Fair judging team in Toronto. The bread tray has always been a favorite. The small dish at the bottom is actually the top from a trophy that was dismantled and now serves as a candy dish.
Tayside Farms Awards for Holstein Shows
As a child, one Saturday a month, I was tasked with polishing the following – just some of the many awards that the Tayside Farms holstein herd attracted. When my parents left their home, the extensive collection of awards were divided among family members. Lots of memories!
From Alice, My Paternal Grandmother
I have never used this dish but it is special to me. It was used when Grandma served Sunday night supper to friends and relatives who have ‘dropped by’ for a visit. Grandma didn’t have a lot of ‘fancy’ dishes. She won this one for achieving high points in the needlework division at the annual Perth Fair one year.
Gifts and other Acquisitions
The above items are just a few of the ‘silver’ items that I have faithfully polished over the years. Some items I have already given away. These have survived the various ‘cuts’ but take up a lot of space and haven’t been called into use since leaving our home in Ontario. What to do? The younger generation doesn’t have time to polish silver. We now live in a condo and don’t have the space to entertain large groups. I’ve been to a number of estate sales and talked to dealers and they have trouble ‘giving it away’. It’s silver plate, not sterling so most items have little monetary value.
If family members are not interested in treasures from ‘your life’, what are you planning for the dispersal of favorite items?